6 Lessons on Why It's Never Too Late to Find Love Oprahcom. Love is a gamble and it is better to take the time to grieve then recover and be well again before looking for love again And once you've healed 2 Remember. A lot of couples get back together after a long time apart Even some divorced couples rekindle their love again and marry each other again But there are also couples who don't get back together after breakups So it very much depends on what your specific situation is. The worst thing you can do after a relationship ends is become a recluse. Which 2 of my friends are currently in long-term relationships with the partner of their dreams. You couldn't love anymore did you find someone you loved even more. How to reconnect and fall in love with your partner all over again.